Give to get more, A simple tip of Greatness

​The world is a beautiful place; some people yell that all the time, what’s so fine about this world? They say! When there could be very annoying people everywhere we go, we try to equivocate this personalities every day whether at work or at school or just catching fun.

That’s me thinking out loud😝

Most times I stare at the sky folding my arms wondering how endless it seems, sometimes it’s beautiful or not. Intuitively I aware it’s “Geod” as they said. (At least I’ve seen a satellite proving this theory).

This begs the question: Is intuition always right?

Good enough instincts always depends on theories or facts to function for example; instincts say that feeling pain is insecurity better still it’s because of a loop hole.

Every human being intuitive thinks and knows that to succeed is an essential part of existence in fact it makes it easier for your voice to be not just heard but worshipped. This is the way we have been raised, from infancy, crawling to standing upright then walking in progression is admired by our parents as success. When a child starts elementary school, the propagation of success is monitored by how fast the child adapts to education through High school even to the greatest height of education! All of these highlights not only stamp “success” in our mentality it’s accompanied with the burning desire to be a success story.

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Rationally, we would admit that the rate of success of a Nobel laureate is an insult when compared to an elementary school ‘Pupil’.

That’s life!

As we grow through different stages of education, we begin to understand that success is not only about academics, it’s about being useful thus getting the right mindset of standing out, embracing who you are, neglecting negativity and finding focus anytime;  to motivate us towards greatness.

Our most noteworthy success in life is regularly found in helping other people succeed. Our most enduring and satisfying accomplishments are frequently earned by helping other people satisfy theirs. This is a remote intuition to a culture that regularly observes the world as one Goliath rivalry. In their psyche, there are a set number of champs and losers. What’s more, in the event that another person wins, that is one less open door for me. Be that as it may, I have come to understand the outlook of rivalry depends on a erroneous mindset. It expected that there is a limited measured pie that one more accomplishment in another’s life, breaks even with one less achievement in mine. Yet, truth be told, this reasoning is incorrect. There is brilliant flexibility and effortlessness in understanding the extent of the pie is not limited that truly, the pie continues developing. Another’s prosperity does not mean I have less open door. Indeed, other people’s prosperity can really be my success if I had chance to empower, support, and advance them along the way! Consider how helping others make progress (in any case you/they choose to characterize it) brings about critical advantages in various directions:

The receiver has reached a far greater potential than they could have on their own.

The world has been bettered and has been given a life-giving model to emulate.

The giver is remembered fondly and is often publicly (and privately) thanked for their contribution.

A stranger is likely to be the recipient of the original receiver “paying it forward.” And the cycle begins again. Now, just to be clear, I am beginning with a suspicion that our greatest joys in life are once in a while found in the persistent quest for egotistical ambition that narrow minded wishes dependably abandon us lacking and scanning for additional. Some may believe that line of speculation is excessively implausible, fantastical, or out-dated. They trust that in a no nonsense world in case I’m not paying special mind to #1, no one is. Be that as it may, that line of intuition is short-sighted. Inherently, we know we have been intended to live to something more prominent than ourselves. Our commitment to this world must be measured by something more significant than the span of our home or the area where it is found. What’s more, our lives will discover enduring hugeness by the way we live them… and how we empower others to experience theirs.

 It appears that the error a considerable lot of us make is in suspecting that there is a limited measure of achievement to be had in the world, thus we turn out to be so engrossed with accomplishing our own prosperity that we don’t put the time and care into cultivating the accomplishment of others. We have to understand that there is sufficient cash, enough clients, enough accomplishment to go around. Because another person picks up achievement does not imply that you will lose it. Tolerating this reality will help open you up to the extent of formal that accompany helping other people rise. So how precisely would you be able to help other people succeed?

1. Share your insight and expertise: Everyone is a specialist in something, and there are certainly individuals out there who can profit by your experience and knowledge. Being open to giving your time and offering to others to help them excel is an entirely basic undertaking. Furthermore, through coaching you yourself will increase new learning, aptitudes and enhance your critical thinking capabilities.

2. Share your resources: I’ve had such a large number of individuals bail me out with my new displaying office for the most part by imparting their system to me and interfacing me with others in the mold business. It doesn’t serve them… yet. I certainly will recollect the greater part of the favors and reimburse them when I’m capable. It might have taken one minute of their time, yet it has helped me to develop my business immensely.

3. Make others mindful of an opportunity: How numerous opportunities come your way that aren’t exactly ideal for you, yet could be incredible for another person? Rather than hitting the erase catch, passing these odds on to the individuals who may be more qualified is a little signal that could be an aggregate distinct advantage for another person.

4. Try not to tear others down: On the other hand, you can be a colossal help to others by not accepting the open door to insult when you have the shot. Not partaking in tearing those down who you might contend with and rather wishing them the best is a practice in great vibes that will dependably return to you. Also, why squander your vitality on trusting somebody falls flat when you could utilize it to develop your own success? By helping other people when you find the opportunity, you will construct further and more extensive associations that may profit your expert life however will definitely profit your life all in all. From an inspiration point of view, helping other people improves the importance and reason for our own particular lives, demonstrating to us that our commitments matter and invigorating us to work harder, longer, and quicker witted. The greatest pioneers of the world have gotten help in transit up and keep on paying it forward, now it’s your turn.

We all understand the principle of “give to get more”.

Its almost IMPOSSIBLE to attain greatness without affiliations with others, to succeed, we need to listen to people, discuss ideas, inspire  the society etc. All of these open doors of favor and motivates you more to pursue more. Start doing something for somebody now and you’ll soon become relevant and indispensable to everybody. God bless you.

​BECOMING THE LIGHT IN YOUR ENVIRONMENT

 

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Thinking out loud

I have tedious days, I break down and sometimes I just want to give in. Sometimes I feel like I’m in a trance, I ask myself what I am doing here. Why am I here? If I were to die now, where would I end up? Where would I be in 70 years? What is God’s purpose for me?

This world is filled with a lot of tasks, challenges etc unfolding as we spend every minute closing in on the future (well; some might say “The End Time”) with differing opportunities. Everyone going about their daily activities with the optimism that their immediate environment would bring laughter to their faces. People wake up every day with different goals, galvanizing their dreams with positivism and hope.

We all have problems no matter how small and insignificant they seem, ranging from self to our society. We wake up with different burdens and ‘headaches’ this is akin to the thoughts we go to bed with, the insincerity, insecurity, job problems and laziness we wine and dine with. Psychologically, the things we experience within our environment on a daily basis plays a role in painting what we’d become.

What am I driving at?

All of the differing life tasks at different levels drives us to one thing “purpose”

Question: What’s yours?

 What does it mean that God is light?

God is light,” says 1 John 1:5. Light is a common metaphor in the Bible. Proverbs 4:18 symbolizes righteousness as the “morning sun.” Philippians 2:15 likens God’s children who are “blameless and pure” to shining stars in the sky. Jesus used light as a picture of good works: “Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds” Matthew 5:16. Psalm 76:4 says of God, “You are radiant with light.”

The fact that God is light sets up a natural contrast with darkness. If light is a metaphor for righteousness and goodness, then darkness signifies evil and sin. 1 John 1:6 says that “if we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth.” Verse 5 says, “God is light; in him there is no darkness at all.” Note that we are not told that God is a light but that He is light. Light is part of His essence, as is love 1 John 4:8. The message is that God is completely, unreservedly, absolutely holy, with no admixture of sin, no taint of iniquity, and no hint of injustice.

If we do not have the light, we do not know God. Those who know God, who walk with Him, are of the light and walk in the light. They are made partakers of God’s divine nature, “having escaped the corruption in the world caused by evil desires” 2 Peter 1:4.

God is light, and so is His Son. Jesus said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life” John 8:12. To “walk” is to make progress. Therefore, we can infer from this verse that Christians are meant to grow in holiness and to mature in faith as they follow Jesus see 2 Peter 3:18.

God is light, and it is His plan that believers shine forth His light, becoming more like Christ every day.

1 Thessalonians 5:5

“You are all children of the light and children of the day. We do not belong to the night or to the darkness” 

God is the Creator of physical light as well as the Giver of spiritual light by which we can see the truth. Light exposes that which is hidden in darkness; it shows things as they really are. To walk in the light means to know God, understand the truth, and live in righteousness.

Believers in Christ must confess any darkness within themselves their sins and transgression and allow God to shine His light through them.

Christians cannot sit idly by and watch others continue in the darkness of sin, knowing that those in darkness are destined for eternal separation from God. The Light of the World desires to banish the darkness and bestow His wisdom everywhere (Isaiah 9:2; Habakkuk 2:14; John 1:9). In taking the light of the gospel to the world, we must by necessity reveal things about people that they would rather leave hidden. Light is uncomfortable to those accustomed to the dark (John 3:20).

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One of God’s purpose for our lives is to be “The light: The eye of the environment.”

The eye is not only the most beautiful but also the most important sensory organ of the human body; four fifths of all the impressions on the senses come from the eye. Moreover, the eyes make an essential contribution to the facial expression and serves a purpose of getting and making contact with other people, therefore the eyes are an indispensable means of communication.(Stralsund)

To be the light as God has mandated has many benefits;

Matthew 6:22

The light of the body is the eye: if therefore thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light.

From this Scripture, the environment held together by various activities, tasks, challenges people e.t.c can be likened to the human body held together by neurons, tendons, etc. Every part of the body is important as they have different functions. Without the eye the whole body would be in darkness.

1 Corinthians 12:27

 Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it.

We are the children of God and by extension the eyes (light) of the environment (the body).

Light is a natural agent that stimulates sight and make things visible.

A divine presence believed by Quakers to enlighten and guide the soul. Word web

Light as we know is an essential part of our environment. We need light to see, plants need light to grow we use it for everything. As Christians we must always be the source of light wherever we find ourselves, the world is in total darkness.

Matthew 5:15

Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.

God has tasked us to be a source of illumination, to Inspire, and influence the society.

Matthew 5:14

“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hid.

Why must we be the light as God has asked us to be?

Isaiah 60:2-3

 2 For behold, darkness shall cover the earth, and thick darkness the peoples; but the LORD will arise upon you, and his glory will be seen upon you.

3 And nations shall come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your rising.

This assurance is accessible only if we choose the light, be a light source and share it.

How is the light Generated?

It begins with simply identifying with Christ, when you do: you automatically become an Eye: The light.

John 1:4

In him was life, and the life was the light of men.

John 8:12

 Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, “I am the light of the world; he who follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”

How we should generate at different levels

We generate at different spectrum though the gift of the spirit as stated in

Galatians 5:22-24

22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

23 gentleness, self-control; against such there is no law.

 24 And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.

Jesus, the sinless Son of God, is the “true light” John 1:9. As adopted sons of God, we are to reflect His light into a world darkened by sin. Our goal in witnessing to the unsaved is “to open their eyes and turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan to God” Acts 26:18.

Thanks for your time, God bless you!

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The light: Understanding Why we must Illuminate

A Fresh Mindset For 2017: 5 Tips you should Try

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Resolutions made in faint absoluteness for the New Year is the wrong direction most people tread, we are so overjoyed (yikes its 2017!) caught up in sentiments. In this state we tend to unintentionally make promises that are not realistic. We are not committed but on the off-chance we are consumed in the spirit of the New Year. This begs the question;

Why do Resolutions not last?

Most times our resolutions never work out because we do it out of sentimentality, “the new year joy” what’s more, the happiness of crossing over to a new year can obscure our minds, and usually we receive and return hugs, share a drink, and spend time with loved ones. These occurrences in different platforms can create bias forcing us to ignore the dawn of reality.

The basics of naturally occurring circumstance can sometimes not be understood. Living or mere existence; whichever of these, moments unfold as the year rolls over thus striking the gut to leap over the edge, and the huge difference is in the ability to adapt at different societal levels thus I deduce that the accomplishment of goals doesn’t only come with the joyful  feelings but reality of life and hard work.

With the New Year in your hands, you might start to ponder; devising various means just like entrepreneurs and thinking success would birth happiness but having a luminous point of view can help build a better resolution. When the brain is positive, [it] releases neurochemicals called success accelerants like dopamine and they turn on that part of the brain that allow you to perceive more possibilities and process more information, a pessimistic mindset, by contrast, causes the brain to feel threatened, closing it off to new opportunities.

Having a luminous point of view can also help you make better resolutions and be more successful in achieving them. “Your brain is three times more creative in a positive state,” Achor. While an optimistic mindset is essential all year round, it’s particularly central towards the end of the year, when we begin to reflect on the past and eat our words of resolute complexity thus the reason we are in a hurry to make resolutions.

After making your 2017 goals, follow these five tips to get into a positive state of mind.

  1. Positive habits boost mental health.Integrate positive habits into your daily schedule and experience the benefits of an optimistic outlook.  Make every moment in your day worthwhile.
  2. Value Yourself: Many individuals see themselves as despicable, delight you with respect and kindness as you would to loved ones and avoid self-criticism. Take time to participate in activities and hobbies you fancy, it’s important too! Engage in whatever is good, enlightening, and makes you feel good. 15 Key ways to Express Self Love
  3. Take Care of Your Body: Staying physically healthy can help your mental health. Be sure to eat good food other than junk, get enough rest, drink plenty of water and avoid harmful substances. If you feel good physically, the probability of debilitating and worry are notably reduced. Surround Yourself with Good People. Learn to deal with stress: Dealing with stress is an inevitable part of our lives. (to read more on stress click on the link) Tips on Stress Management
  4. Give More: invest more of your time and energy to help others in need. It will be tremendously gratifying to see the positive results of your investment. Also remember to smile and look for the positive things in life.
  5. Find inner peace: Meditation and prayer can be helpful in silencing unwanted thoughts in your head. Set reasonable goals: Set goals for yourself personally and professionally and settle on measures to aid you in accomplishment these goals. Finding your Quiet Time in a Loud world

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Stay Blessed!

Dating Tips101 #8

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Be Enlightened: 3 Stages in Dating

There are 3 unsurprising stages that couples experience in a dating relationship. At every stage, there is frequently a choice (at times more keenly thoughtful than others) to push ahead or to end the relationship.

A few phases take longer than others to experience and a few people take any longer at every stage. Tragically, a few people don’t completely understand and process every phase as an open door for self-awareness or to make a solid assessment about the relationship or about themselves.

The First Stage: Initial Meeting/Attraction

Dating relationship needs to begin some place. The underlying meeting may occur over the web, through friends, in a congregation or social gathering, at a gathering or bar or any of a heap of various spots.

Distinctive fields for meeting take into account diverse chances to become acquainted with each other and check whether there is sufficient interest or enthusiasm to take it to the following level which would include masterminding a moment or third meeting.

Stage 2: Curiosity, Interest, and Infatuation

Amid the second stage, fascination and infatuation are generally affirmed.

Early fascination frequently includes the physical qualities of the fellow and incorporate things like outward appearance, body shape, interests and identity attributes. At this stage, the fascination may not be as well “profound” and every 50% of a couple is by and large putting his or her best foot forward. Contrasts are not saw or are expelled with musings like “not a major ordeal” or “she will change”.

Couples by and large don’t have much misunderstanding at this phase of the cycle as each is truly making a decent attempt to awe the other individual. Frequently (not generally) there is insufficient “is this the perfect match for me” but instead progressively “what would I be able to do to make this individual like me?”

This stage may keep going for 3 or 4 months relying upon the people and their development, experience and self-comprehension. Towards the end of this stage, and ideally at different circumstances all through it, it is not uncommon for inquiries of “is this the perfect individual for me” to rise. For ladies particularly there may likewise be a longing to make sense of where the relationship is going.

Going gradually in settling on any choices about a relationship will probably be preferred ones over moving rapidly (unless plainly the relationship is not a solid match).

Stage 3: “Edification” and Becoming a Couple

Amid this phase of a relationship, hormones are quieting down and reality sets in. Couples frequently go “further” in their association. Trust is more grounded and more affections might be shared at this phase as couples take away some of their “best face” and permit themselves to act all the more normally and loose.

Both parts of a couple will see shortcomings and contrasts or blemishes. “Adorable” propensities may get to be distinctly bothering at this stage. Some of those interminable issues or contrasts, for example, free-spending or thrifty, slick and efficient or messy and disrupted, intrigued by bunches of time together or more required in outside exercises start to rise.

At this phase of the relationship, couples will observe the distinctions and may even start to gripe or endeavor to issue fathom.

As closeness creates between the two individuals, more self-revelation rises, both verbally and nonverbally as couples act in ways that are more similar to how they are in their day by day life.

This is the point at which the unavoidable issue rises significantly more emphatically: “Where are we headed?” Women tend to pose this question before men, despite the fact that both might ponder about the response to this question. Pushing for a reply; be that as it may, may bring about genuine issues in the relationship. Every individual needs to listen to their own particular inward voice and insight. It is essential to talk over their contemplations and emotions with their accomplice while discovering approaches to keep from “pushing” for responsibility.

There is no compelling reason to hurry through this imperative stage and each motivation to go gradually.

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The Ugly Truth: Love is never enough, 6 basic factors that nurture Relationships

The light: Understanding Why we must Illuminate

Illumunation in the profound sense is “turning on the light” of comprehension in some range. All through the ages, individuals in each culture and religion have asserted some sort of disclosure or edification from God (whether genuine or not). At the point when that illumination manages new learning or future things, we call it prescience. At the point when that edification manages understanding and applying information effectively given, we call it enlightenment. Concerning of the last sort, the question emerges,

“How does God do it?”

The most fundamental level of illumination is the learning of transgression, and without that information, everything else is futile.

Psalm 18:28 says,

You are the one who lights my lamp the Lord my God illumines my darkness.

 

Psalms 119 which is the longest Chapter in the Bible, is a melody about God’s Word. In verse 130, it says “The entrace of your words gives light; it offers comprehension to the simple.” This verse builds up the fundamental technique for God’s enlightenment. At the point when God’s Word enters the heart of a man, it gives light and comprehension to them. Therefore, we are more than once advised to concentrate the Word of God.

 

Psalm 119:11 says

“You word I keep close in my heart so I might not sin against you.”

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Customary investigation of the Word of God will provide guidance and comprehension in the issues of life. This is the main strategy for God’s brightening and the beginning stage for every one of us. In Psalm 119 we likewise discover another sort of God’s enlightenment. Verse 18 says,  These are not new disclosures, but rather things which have been composed and uncovered much sooner, and a few seconds ago comprehended by the peruser (one of those “aha!” minutes). Thus, verse 73 says, “Your hands made me and framed me; give me comprehension to take in your summons.” The supplication is for individual comprehension and utilization of God’s laws as they are examined by the person. Fifteen circumstances in this psalm, God gives understanding with respect to His laws.
One entry that occasionally blends contention in regards to light is John 14:26, “However the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will show all of you things and will help you to remember all that I have said to you.”

Jesus was addressing His followers in the upper room, giving them last directions before His demise. This uncommon gathering of men was to be in charge of spreading the uplifting news of Jesus Christ to the entire world. They had burned through three and a half years with Him, watching His supernatural occurrences and listening to His lessons. They would transfer those things to whatever remains of the world, and would need God’s exceptional help recalling those things precisely. Jesus said that the Holy Spirit would show them and help them to remember what had been said, so they could offer it to others (counting the written work of the Gospels). This verse does not show that the Spirit will do as such with all adherents (however there are different verses that talk about the Spirit’s lighting up work).
What is the Holy Spirit’s enlightening work in devotees?

Ephesians 1:17-18

17 I pray that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, will give you a spirit of wisdom and revelation that makes God known to you. 18 I pray that the eyes of your heart will have enough light to see what is the hope of God’s call, what is the richness of God’s glorious inheritance among believers.”

In 1 Corinthians 2:10-13, 

10 God has revealed these things to us through the Spirit. The Spirit searches everything, including the depths of God. 11 Who knows a person’s depths except their own spirit that lives in them? In the same way, no one has known the depths of God except God’s Spirit. 12 We haven’t received the world’s spirit but God’s Spirit so that we can know the things given to us by God. 13 These are the things we are talking about not with words taught by human wisdom but with words taught by the Spirit we are interpreting spiritual things to spiritual people.

God has uncovered His arrangements for us by His Spirit, who shows us very deep things. The setting here focuses to the Word of God as that which has been uncovered. The Spirit of God will dependably guide us toward the Word of God for our direction. As Jesus told His disciples in

John 16:12-15,

have much more to say to you, but you can’t handle it now. 13 However, when the Spirit of Truth comes, he will guide you in all truth. He won’t speak on his own, but will say whatever he hears and will proclaim to you what is to come. 14 He will glorify me, because he will take what is mine and proclaim it to you. 15 Everything that the Father has is mine. That’s why I said that the Spirit takes what is mine and will proclaim it to you.

To be continued next Monday…

Merry Christmas

Yaay! Its Christmas…

May your Christmas be filled with sparks of joyful moments, love, laughter, goodwill, and fulfilment.I pray that every moment bring satisfaction and celebrations that’ll last throughout the new year! Don’t forget to shower everyone around with Love and Jesus Joy.

May God bless you and your entire household…  

Hohoho!

Merry Christmas plus wishing you a ground breaking New Year…

From all of us at Relationship Pills!