Thank you: Relationship pill is 1

Relationship pill is 1🌟

Thank you Jesus!🙏

Thanks everyone, its been one year together🕐🎉🎆🎆🎂

I would forever be grateful for the support and encouragement😂🙌😘😍🙋

Special thanks to Miss Adepoju for you’re unrelenting critiques.


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Dear reader;

Lemme tell you a story!

There was once a bird that lived on a tree in the forest during winter, the poor bird feeling cold started singing and jumping from trees to trees while jumping the bird fell on the ground and broke it’s legs while struggling to get up; a bull passing by crapped on it.

The bird at first was sad and it later felt warm in the crap, it relaxed and just when about to sleep, a cat smelt it then scattered the crap and ate the bird.

The significance of my story: Life find its way to put us down, bringing series of challenges each day, a task.

We as a fighter must see the advantage in each task and maximize every opportunity life.

Whatever positive stuff you’re engaged in presently that’s not yielding results just keep trying Also remember that things can only get better!

God bless you!

Give to get more, A simple tip of Greatness

​The world is a beautiful place; some people yell that all the time, what’s so fine about this world? They say! When there could be very annoying people everywhere we go, we try to equivocate this personalities every day whether at work or at school or just catching fun.

That’s me thinking out loud😝

Most times I stare at the sky folding my arms wondering how endless it seems, sometimes it’s beautiful or not. Intuitively I aware it’s “Geod” as they said. (At least I’ve seen a satellite proving this theory).

This begs the question: Is intuition always right?

Good enough instincts always depends on theories or facts to function for example; instincts say that feeling pain is insecurity better still it’s because of a loop hole.

Every human being intuitive thinks and knows that to succeed is an essential part of existence in fact it makes it easier for your voice to be not just heard but worshipped. This is the way we have been raised, from infancy, crawling to standing upright then walking in progression is admired by our parents as success. When a child starts elementary school, the propagation of success is monitored by how fast the child adapts to education through High school even to the greatest height of education! All of these highlights not only stamp “success” in our mentality it’s accompanied with the burning desire to be a success story.

•••The swoop•••

Rationally, we would admit that the rate of success of a Nobel laureate is an insult when compared to an elementary school ‘Pupil’.

That’s life!

As we grow through different stages of education, we begin to understand that success is not only about academics, it’s about being useful thus getting the right mindset of standing out, embracing who you are, neglecting negativity and finding focus anytime;  to motivate us towards greatness.

Our most noteworthy success in life is regularly found in helping other people succeed. Our most enduring and satisfying accomplishments are frequently earned by helping other people satisfy theirs. This is a remote intuition to a culture that regularly observes the world as one Goliath rivalry. In their psyche, there are a set number of champs and losers. What’s more, in the event that another person wins, that is one less open door for me. Be that as it may, I have come to understand the outlook of rivalry depends on a erroneous mindset. It expected that there is a limited measured pie that one more accomplishment in another’s life, breaks even with one less achievement in mine. Yet, truth be told, this reasoning is incorrect. There is brilliant flexibility and effortlessness in understanding the extent of the pie is not limited that truly, the pie continues developing. Another’s prosperity does not mean I have less open door. Indeed, other people’s prosperity can really be my success if I had chance to empower, support, and advance them along the way! Consider how helping others make progress (in any case you/they choose to characterize it) brings about critical advantages in various directions:

The receiver has reached a far greater potential than they could have on their own.

The world has been bettered and has been given a life-giving model to emulate.

The giver is remembered fondly and is often publicly (and privately) thanked for their contribution.

A stranger is likely to be the recipient of the original receiver “paying it forward.” And the cycle begins again. Now, just to be clear, I am beginning with a suspicion that our greatest joys in life are once in a while found in the persistent quest for egotistical ambition that narrow minded wishes dependably abandon us lacking and scanning for additional. Some may believe that line of speculation is excessively implausible, fantastical, or out-dated. They trust that in a no nonsense world in case I’m not paying special mind to #1, no one is. Be that as it may, that line of intuition is short-sighted. Inherently, we know we have been intended to live to something more prominent than ourselves. Our commitment to this world must be measured by something more significant than the span of our home or the area where it is found. What’s more, our lives will discover enduring hugeness by the way we live them… and how we empower others to experience theirs.

 It appears that the error a considerable lot of us make is in suspecting that there is a limited measure of achievement to be had in the world, thus we turn out to be so engrossed with accomplishing our own prosperity that we don’t put the time and care into cultivating the accomplishment of others. We have to understand that there is sufficient cash, enough clients, enough accomplishment to go around. Because another person picks up achievement does not imply that you will lose it. Tolerating this reality will help open you up to the extent of formal that accompany helping other people rise. So how precisely would you be able to help other people succeed?

1. Share your insight and expertise: Everyone is a specialist in something, and there are certainly individuals out there who can profit by your experience and knowledge. Being open to giving your time and offering to others to help them excel is an entirely basic undertaking. Furthermore, through coaching you yourself will increase new learning, aptitudes and enhance your critical thinking capabilities.

2. Share your resources: I’ve had such a large number of individuals bail me out with my new displaying office for the most part by imparting their system to me and interfacing me with others in the mold business. It doesn’t serve them… yet. I certainly will recollect the greater part of the favors and reimburse them when I’m capable. It might have taken one minute of their time, yet it has helped me to develop my business immensely.

3. Make others mindful of an opportunity: How numerous opportunities come your way that aren’t exactly ideal for you, yet could be incredible for another person? Rather than hitting the erase catch, passing these odds on to the individuals who may be more qualified is a little signal that could be an aggregate distinct advantage for another person.

4. Try not to tear others down: On the other hand, you can be a colossal help to others by not accepting the open door to insult when you have the shot. Not partaking in tearing those down who you might contend with and rather wishing them the best is a practice in great vibes that will dependably return to you. Also, why squander your vitality on trusting somebody falls flat when you could utilize it to develop your own success? By helping other people when you find the opportunity, you will construct further and more extensive associations that may profit your expert life however will definitely profit your life all in all. From an inspiration point of view, helping other people improves the importance and reason for our own particular lives, demonstrating to us that our commitments matter and invigorating us to work harder, longer, and quicker witted. The greatest pioneers of the world have gotten help in transit up and keep on paying it forward, now it’s your turn.

We all understand the principle of “give to get more”.

Its almost IMPOSSIBLE to attain greatness without affiliations with others, to succeed, we need to listen to people, discuss ideas, inspire  the society etc. All of these open doors of favor and motivates you more to pursue more. Start doing something for somebody now and you’ll soon become relevant and indispensable to everybody. God bless you.

The Hidden Beauty of Friendship 

Friendship is fundamental to our prosperity in aspects of life. As people we have an essential requirement for group, for the partnership of others. Friends help us develop, comfort us when help is desperately needed, celebrate with us or help us find fun when we turn out to be excessively serious. Distinctive sorts of friends help us investigate the diverse needs throughout our lives, motivating us with exceptional stuff and adds something uncommon to our experience. 
Friends offer us a cozy relationship of trust, comprehension, correspondence, bolster, play, sympathy, and steadfastness. Companions permit us to act naturally and unwind. In the wake of investing energy with companions, we ought to leave liking ourselves. In spite of the fact that there are special cases to this manage, it ought to even now be the run and difficult circumstances the exemption. Companions make us happy that we are our identity. 

Why do you need to be aware?

The beauty of friendship is in the choice. We are naturally introduced to our families, yet we select our companions. So by this measure alone, our friends are exceptional and uncommon. They are acknowledged in light of the fact that we chose them to be a piece of our lives. Also, thus they chose us to be a piece of theirs. 
Friendships require contact. Nonappearance does not make the relationship heart become fonder. It makes the fellowship leave. So it’s critical to invest energy with our companions all the time. Fortunately, there are an assortment of approaches to invest energy with friends.

How to Naturally enjoy the beauty

A few friends put on phone earphones and clean house together. Every companion is in their individual home visiting without end the yucky week by week tasks. Others email routinely sending jokes and goodies of their days. Be watchful with email however, it can be sudden. Make sure to utilize your emoticoms. It’s vital in email to really compose your feelings so that the peruser will comprehend if it’s a joke, or mockery, and so forth. Different companions share pictures through their mobile phones. There are an assortment of approaches to remain in contact and add euphoria to the relationship. 
Friendship require sustaining and festivity. As a general public we have events to praise a large number of unions. Commemorations for wedded couples, Mother’s Day for our moms, Father’s Day for our fathers. Worldwide Friendship Day was praised on August 6 of 2006. The inconvenience is, very few individuals are even mindful that there is an International Friendship Day and on the off chance that they do, they don’t know how to praise it. 
Consider the take after sorts of companionship and approaches to praise these type of friendships. 

Types of Friendship Base on Association

Work Friends:
Professional companionships have their own flavor. As a rule we keep down a little with our expert companions. In any case, they have a vital place in our lives. Not the slightest of which is making work more fun and pleasant. Consider a work environment with no companions. What amount of fun would that be? We can commend these kinships by taking these individuals to lunch, or arranging a supper party. Moreover, it is critical to recollect our work companion’s birthdays. This discloses to them that they are unique to us and we are happy they were conceived.

School Friends: We share a special bond with friends we shared school days with. It doesn’t really matter which phase of school we established the friendship, it brings with it a certain bond and nostalgia. Sometimes our school day friends no longer live close to us. So it’s important to find ways to nurture and celebrate these friendships in other ways. Perhaps once a year you can meet somewhere fun and make it an annual tradition. You could start a picture page on the Internet where you share the events of your life through photographs. Email and cell phones make it easier to stay in touch, but add a little more to add to the depth of your relationship.

New Friends: New friendships are a little more fragile. Both parties are still exploring the possibilities. Communication is key to bringing these relationships to life. Find something in common and take a class together. This will allow you an excuse to be together on a regular basis. If you depend on getting together for the next good movie, you may find yourself putting it off. You could walk together every morning, or take a painting class together. It doesn’t matter what it is as long as you both enjoy it and can do it on a regular basis.

Neighbors: Neighbors make us a group. They look out for each other, help your children when they require it, and frequently help us when we require it. We can demonstrate thankfulness for our neighbors in a few ways. We can offer dinners when they are wiped out, we can bring a plate of treats every once in a while just to show we give it a second thought. Many neighbors toss square potluck parties once per year to unite old neighbors and acquaint new neighbors with the group. This bonds everybody, which fortifies the area relationship all in all. There is in no way like great sustenance and incredible stories to unite individuals. 

Group Friends: Sometimes we have a place with a gathering of friends. Maybe you take a standard class together, or have a place with a club. Bunches that have ended up companions generally have a consistent idea; say sewing, which has united them. Other than sewing together, these companions can do a round robin lunch. A round robin lunch serves some portion of the lunch at one home, another at the following house. Friends head out from home to home to eat a specific bit of the dinner.  It’s fun and permits individuals to get to each other on a more individual level. Amass companions can likewise arrange excursions in light of their ongoing idea. Maybe there is an exhibition hall appearing of antique sews in a city adjacent. Club individuals could spend a day appreciating the show and afterward meet at a most loved eatery.

Established Friends: Old, Established companions are the genuine establishment of bliss. They have been with us through great circumstances and terrible circumstances. You have helped each other and chuckled with each other through the progressions of life. These are the really uncommon connections that give us finish approval. These are the companions we ought to set aside greater opportunity to support and celebrate. Obviously, you get to know each other going to lunch, seeing motion pictures, sharing long summer days, and then some. In any case, it’s great to discover a convention you can share and appreciate once per year. Something that says, “our relationship is vital and should be perceived as a yearly custom.” Perhaps you both want to see new places. it doesn’t make a difference what you plan to do as your yearly custom the length of it makes both of you glad and is something you can anticipate throughout the entire year. 

Friendship is critical to our social wellbeing and ought to be treated with care. Figuring out how to support and praise your friends will add profundity and intending to your own particular life. Utilize your creative ability to show thankfulness to your companions and discover approaches to have a ton of fun together. Locate the consistent themes that bond you together and expand on those strings to fortify your relationship. Discover the excellence in your relationships to expand the delight for both of you. 

Is it accurate to say that you are a Good Friend? 

Great companions make life fun and difficult circumstances tolerable. Be that as it may, while you may have a nearby hover of awesome companions, is it worthwhile?

God Bless You Richly🙌😘

Dating Tips101 #10

Avoid/Quit Lies

Lies ruin relationships, its like a boring insect, bit by bit (sucking of happiness).

When we tell all manner of lies, sometimes in “petty” forms; its a weak foundation that allows lapses like insecurity. In that, we’d always need to keep rolling lies to keep up with the initial lie. That makes us vulnerable!

I’m pretty sure you know the cheap lies you tell, vet them now and have peace of mind.

Just be yourself…

Quote of the day

One of the strange ironies of human existence is that all of us are weak and needy, but we try to project the impression that we’re strong and self-sufficient. I’m sure that pride is at the root of this, but it’s still strange to observe.

sees us, recognizing our desperate need for Him, and cry out to Him, He is ready to flood us with His abundant blessings. As Mary acknowledged, “He has filled the hungry with good things; and sent away the rich empty-handed” ( Luke 1:53).

God, who has provided everything for our salvation through Jesus Christ, through Him will also provide all that we need to live for His glory.




Thinking out loud

I have tedious days, I break down and sometimes I just want to give in. Sometimes I feel like I’m in a trance, I ask myself what I am doing here. Why am I here? If I were to die now, where would I end up? Where would I be in 70 years? What is God’s purpose for me?

This world is filled with a lot of tasks, challenges etc unfolding as we spend every minute closing in on the future (well; some might say “The End Time”) with differing opportunities. Everyone going about their daily activities with the optimism that their immediate environment would bring laughter to their faces. People wake up every day with different goals, galvanizing their dreams with positivism and hope.

We all have problems no matter how small and insignificant they seem, ranging from self to our society. We wake up with different burdens and ‘headaches’ this is akin to the thoughts we go to bed with, the insincerity, insecurity, job problems and laziness we wine and dine with. Psychologically, the things we experience within our environment on a daily basis plays a role in painting what we’d become.

What am I driving at?

All of the differing life tasks at different levels drives us to one thing “purpose”

Question: What’s yours?

 What does it mean that God is light?

God is light,” says 1 John 1:5. Light is a common metaphor in the Bible. Proverbs 4:18 symbolizes righteousness as the “morning sun.” Philippians 2:15 likens God’s children who are “blameless and pure” to shining stars in the sky. Jesus used light as a picture of good works: “Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds” Matthew 5:16. Psalm 76:4 says of God, “You are radiant with light.”

The fact that God is light sets up a natural contrast with darkness. If light is a metaphor for righteousness and goodness, then darkness signifies evil and sin. 1 John 1:6 says that “if we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth.” Verse 5 says, “God is light; in him there is no darkness at all.” Note that we are not told that God is a light but that He is light. Light is part of His essence, as is love 1 John 4:8. The message is that God is completely, unreservedly, absolutely holy, with no admixture of sin, no taint of iniquity, and no hint of injustice.

If we do not have the light, we do not know God. Those who know God, who walk with Him, are of the light and walk in the light. They are made partakers of God’s divine nature, “having escaped the corruption in the world caused by evil desires” 2 Peter 1:4.

God is light, and so is His Son. Jesus said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life” John 8:12. To “walk” is to make progress. Therefore, we can infer from this verse that Christians are meant to grow in holiness and to mature in faith as they follow Jesus see 2 Peter 3:18.

God is light, and it is His plan that believers shine forth His light, becoming more like Christ every day.

1 Thessalonians 5:5

“You are all children of the light and children of the day. We do not belong to the night or to the darkness” 

God is the Creator of physical light as well as the Giver of spiritual light by which we can see the truth. Light exposes that which is hidden in darkness; it shows things as they really are. To walk in the light means to know God, understand the truth, and live in righteousness.

Believers in Christ must confess any darkness within themselves their sins and transgression and allow God to shine His light through them.

Christians cannot sit idly by and watch others continue in the darkness of sin, knowing that those in darkness are destined for eternal separation from God. The Light of the World desires to banish the darkness and bestow His wisdom everywhere (Isaiah 9:2; Habakkuk 2:14; John 1:9). In taking the light of the gospel to the world, we must by necessity reveal things about people that they would rather leave hidden. Light is uncomfortable to those accustomed to the dark (John 3:20).


One of God’s purpose for our lives is to be “The light: The eye of the environment.”

The eye is not only the most beautiful but also the most important sensory organ of the human body; four fifths of all the impressions on the senses come from the eye. Moreover, the eyes make an essential contribution to the facial expression and serves a purpose of getting and making contact with other people, therefore the eyes are an indispensable means of communication.(Stralsund)

To be the light as God has mandated has many benefits;

Matthew 6:22

The light of the body is the eye: if therefore thine eye be single, thy whole body shall be full of light.

From this Scripture, the environment held together by various activities, tasks, challenges people e.t.c can be likened to the human body held together by neurons, tendons, etc. Every part of the body is important as they have different functions. Without the eye the whole body would be in darkness.

1 Corinthians 12:27

 Now you are the body of Christ and individually members of it.

We are the children of God and by extension the eyes (light) of the environment (the body).

Light is a natural agent that stimulates sight and make things visible.

A divine presence believed by Quakers to enlighten and guide the soul. Word web

Light as we know is an essential part of our environment. We need light to see, plants need light to grow we use it for everything. As Christians we must always be the source of light wherever we find ourselves, the world is in total darkness.

Matthew 5:15

Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.

God has tasked us to be a source of illumination, to Inspire, and influence the society.

Matthew 5:14

“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hid.

Why must we be the light as God has asked us to be?

Isaiah 60:2-3

 2 For behold, darkness shall cover the earth, and thick darkness the peoples; but the LORD will arise upon you, and his glory will be seen upon you.

3 And nations shall come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your rising.

This assurance is accessible only if we choose the light, be a light source and share it.

How is the light Generated?

It begins with simply identifying with Christ, when you do: you automatically become an Eye: The light.

John 1:4

In him was life, and the life was the light of men.

John 8:12

 Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, “I am the light of the world; he who follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”

How we should generate at different levels

We generate at different spectrum though the gift of the spirit as stated in

Galatians 5:22-24

22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

23 gentleness, self-control; against such there is no law.

 24 And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.

Jesus, the sinless Son of God, is the “true light” John 1:9. As adopted sons of God, we are to reflect His light into a world darkened by sin. Our goal in witnessing to the unsaved is “to open their eyes and turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan to God” Acts 26:18.

Thanks for your time, God bless you!


The light: Understanding Why we must Illuminate